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Post by Blandine on Jan 27, 2015 0:39:19 GMT 1
I'm 20. I had a few relationships but I have not really lived a love story. I had sex only one time. It was almost 3 years ago. Some people might think that I should have waited to find the great love, especially because I'm a girl, but I don't care. I have no regrets. It happened and I'm not ashamed about it. I'm heterosexual but I think that I could be attracted by girls too, but I'm not really sure about that. So I don't know where I could be in this Kinsey scale ^^ I can fall in love very easily but I can identify myself as an akoiromantic in real life sometimes, I wish I was less complicated ^^ I know, I have just said personal things but I somehow needed to talk about this. |
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Post by Liev on Jan 27, 2015 1:21:35 GMT 1
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Post by nick on Jan 27, 2015 9:23:07 GMT 1
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Post by Liev on Jan 27, 2015 9:41:34 GMT 1
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Post by Shovkovskyi/Peter on Jan 27, 2015 10:55:13 GMT 1
I'm living a lie with my sexuality at the moment. My parents don't know I'm gay and I'm actually too scared to say anything to them for these two main reasons, 1) Being treated differently as in they might change their behaviour and stuff. 2) The fear of being rejected. My family aren't overly religious but that doesn't mean they might abandon me completely and through me out. It's these things that are scaring me and it honestly scares the living hell out of me. The only people i've come out to is my college class mates and thats about it. Real and loving family would support you in everything you are or do (and I'm not talking about using narcotics, being a criminal etc.)  |
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Post by Shovkovskyi/Peter on Jan 27, 2015 11:55:21 GMT 1
Glad to see this thread to come up, because nowadays it's really important to be open and talk about sexuality (I'll have to do it too some day if I'll ever work as a teacher, because I study History and social studies, which include talking about sex and sexuality). As for myself - I guess I'm the old-fashioned one here, because I could call myself 100% heterosexual. Yes, maybe if I'd do a little more research I'd find something that I didn't knew about myself, but I doubt. I am attracted to girls almost (because I may not know everything) in all the ways - romantically, sexually etc., etc., etc. Although I haven't had sex or any kind of relationship with girls, but I know that I am attracted to them. I've had one or two crushes, while I was still under 18 years of age, but I don't know if that was serious or just an imagination. Also I haven't ever tried to have any relationship with girls, because I'm afraid of rejection, of being needless. This is my biggest problem and I admit it, but it's really hard to change something about it. And this is where the girl need to help me - I need to see some signs from her that she's attracted to me, that I could go to her and maybe start something like a relationship. That would really help me a lot! But talking about guys - there are some times when I admit someone sexy or beautiful, but that has nothing to do with any kind of attraction to guys - it's more like a comparing myself to them (like - he's sexier than me or more attractive than I am), because I don't see myself as an attractive guy for girls (I don't know about guys). That's a lack of self-confidence, I know, and I know that I should work with it. I'm self-confident in many things, but not in this one, because I haven't seen or heard any positive thoughts from girls that are around me mostly. For me, just as many of you, sex isn't the most important thing in relationship, but it's good if a couple has it sometimes, because it's a part of a good relationship. I try to be the best friend for those who are my friends (and not only them), but sometimes I don't get back what I've given (and I'm not talking about material things). In friendship/relationship with girls for guys like me it's really hard to realize the moment, when you don't have any chances on realtionship with this girl anymore, because you're already in the "friend-zone". As for gays, lesbians etc. - I don't think it's something weird being one of them. Yes, it's different, but not weird. I wouldn't mind if some of my friends wouldn't be heterosexual, because sometimes homosexauls are even better friends than heterosexuals. (I haven't experienced it myself, but I've heard a lot about it) My wish to everyone - be confided about who you are and don't feel ashamed about it (and also about talking about sexuality), because if some people don't like that you're not so "traditional", then these people don't deserve to be your friends. The same thing goes for family - they should support you in everything, especially about your sexuality, because society not always want to accept you as you are. |
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Post by fabbi on Jan 30, 2015 21:38:40 GMT 1
I'm gay too but I never kissed (or had sex with) a boy (or a girl  ) yet... I'd really love to but my time will (hopefully) come I don't understand, how someone discriminates someone because of their sexual orientation. I mean, if your friend turns out as gay, where's the difference ? (S)he's the same person as before, (s)he just stated, that he wants to have sex with the same gender, which absolutely doesn't affect yourself.If someone doesn't like gays but doesn't discriminate them, ok. Everybody has their own opinion. But I can't understand discrimination and never will I would like that person even more lol |
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Post by Julian on Jan 30, 2015 21:40:40 GMT 1
I'm gay too but I never kissed (or had sex with) a boy (or a girl ) yet... I'd really love to but my time will (hopefully) come I don't understand, how someone discriminates someone because of their sexual orientation. I mean, if your friend turns out as gay, where's the difference ? (S)he's the same person as before, (s)he just stated, that he wants to have sex with the same gender, which absolutely doesn't affect yourself.If someone doesn't like gays but doesn't discriminate them, ok. Everybody has their own opinion. But I can't understand discrimination and never will I would like that person even more lol Lol why?  |
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