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Post by Þórir on Jan 6, 2020 20:01:20 GMT 1
Actually I have no idea what is going on, but who is Ana? Basically Ana is the leader of the CU Network (the group of Phil's friends who run YSC and other contests) From what Rontti explained to me, she doesn't like the forum because she feels they dislike and downvote Phils music taste, specifically in WWWSC, and then I guess the fact she feels we are anti-Kpop doesn't help I believe they are close friends and she may just be being protective which is why I don't hold any ill will toward her, just I won't waste my time on a contest I don't enjoy longer.
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Post by Fifi on Jan 6, 2020 20:09:55 GMT 1
Ana would only quot what Erica Vaal said at the begin from the ESC 1967 in Vienna!
Aber Nicht der Preis der hier vergeben wird ist das wichtigste, sondern die Tatsache das die Stimmen so vieler Nationen gemeinsam in einer solchen Veranstaltung erklingen!
But it is not the price that is awarded here that is most important, but the fact that the voices of so many nations are heard together in such an event
- Erica Vaal ESC 1967
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Post by italix on Jan 6, 2020 20:13:28 GMT 1
I never made bad jokes on anybody and the only attack I made on somebody on the forum was in reaction to an unacceptable attack I received. So how can you say that I "jerk to everyone"? I also think that everybody on the forum should take Ana's reaction seriously, because this is a testimony on how this forum could be perceived outside. You never took part to this contest - I did, more than one year long - and you have no idea about the difficulty of making the forumers be accepted in this particular contest. And clearly, that award ruined the six last months of efforts after a serious crisis during which I decided to leave the contest. I don't care about being considered as a selfish person or a moralist here. There is still a small hope that some people on this forum will finally begin to be aware of what should change here. My main point isn't even about Ana. My main point is that you creat things out of nothing and decide to blame everyone who doesn't agree and while you didn't attack anyone you do not show much respect to some people here. Best example is Martin who kicked you off NNMC but you kept trying to make him look bad and that he is a bad host that doesn't deserve popularity that he has with his contest. Do people throw stones at you? Yes but you reply 100 times more agressive then they do and most of the time you start the dramas and things like that so it's not like people are going out of their way to make you feel like shit here. Trust me I have a lot of experience with feelings like that, feeling completly cut off from my fellow classmates/friends or even forumers. It's hard but if you keep that wall up it will not help. Try say things much more calmly, people don't like being bossed around and things like that. That's finally it for me. When did I speak about the popularity of NNMC and the fact it would be deserved or not? The only thing that I said was that the ban I received was completely unfair and that the decision wasn't even taken following the rules of his contest (a "vote" organised in the middle of the night where most of the members of the council discovered the result when they woke up). I also let him multiple chances to fix his mistake, he never did. He took his decision, I think he is perfectly aware that he created a way bigger problem that the one he "solved" but what can I do? I won't beg him on my knees.
About my behaviour on the forum, I am aware that I don't integrate myself well on this forum. But there is a reason: I feel extremely insecure here. I saw so many judgements, bad jokes, unnecessary dramas and cases of harassment here that the less details on me I give, the better I feel. I clearly don't have the same behaviour in other communities I belong to. I feel free there to reveal details like my age, my job, my hobbies, to speak about events of my personal life... But here I turned on "strict safe mode" and my nationality, my hometown and my ethnicity are the only personal informations you will ever have about me. I feel that everything I could tell about me could be used as a weapon against me. I will also add that I won't ever speak about my sexual identity here, which is apparently very important to some of you.
Finally, about the fact of "starting dramas", I just point the fact that one single person can't maintain a drama all by himself. Think about the situation: I posted a comment on a small thread of a secondary contest of the forum. Almost immediately, several people who never participated to the contest came out of nowhere and started quoting me and liking each other's posts. This is always the same very tiring scenario. If really I wanted to start dramas, and if I felt obliged to react each time I strongly disagree what someone wrote, it would become my full time job.
I confess that I'm not very nice with some people (one in particular, everyone knows who I am talking about...) who quoted me 50+ times in the past, mostly for saying s... about me. My bad. I must be a very mean person.
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Post by Callum on Jan 6, 2020 20:14:16 GMT 1
Well, at least we have an early Thread of the Year contender for the 2020 SCF Awards
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Post by Þórir on Jan 6, 2020 20:21:15 GMT 1
Here is a recipe for traditional Icelandic kleinur. What are kleinur you ask? Well they are like a donut but in an awesome twisted shape and great for when you want to relax with coffee. What does it have to do here? Well I think all of us in this thread need to relax with some coffee.
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Post by Aleks on Jan 6, 2020 20:24:02 GMT 1
Actually I have no idea what is going on, but who is Ana? Ana Iraqia ofc
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Post by Fifi on Jan 6, 2020 20:33:28 GMT 1
I have a personal Question!
1st from me: Wow what so many have writes about that what Ana makes or thinks! That so what comes was a big wonder!
Can anyone write me a Message about what here happens now really! I personly don't understand it really! And what Ana thinks is not a secret!
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Post by ʀօʏ on Jan 6, 2020 20:35:30 GMT 1
I have a personal Question! 1st from me: Wow what so many have writes about that what Ana makes or thinks! That so what comes was a big wonder! Can anyone write me a Message about what here happens now really! I personly don't understand it really! And what Ana thinks is not a secret! Well long story short. You made the thread and the story but then it was taken over by Italix and everyone kinda forgot your story.. But enjoy the drama haha
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Post by Oisín on Jan 6, 2020 21:12:06 GMT 1
ana l. penetration applies for the next series of DSR
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Post by MG on Jan 6, 2020 21:20:25 GMT 1
Actually I have no idea what is going on, but who is Ana? Ana Iraqia ofc 🤣🤣🤣 dead
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